Untethering
Monday 5pm EST / Tuesday 9am AEDT
For women waking up and deciding to leave.
Empower your healing journey
You don't have to do this alone.
The Sanctuary is a 6-month healing journey for women in transition. Small groups. Live classes. Real community.
Leaving
Grieving
Rebuilding
Belonging
What this feels like
Safe. Sacred. Held.
For women in transition
Move through crisis, grief, and identity change in a steady community that meets you where you are.
Awakening
Processing
Turning
Integration
The problem
You're in the hardest season of your life.
Maybe you're leaving an unsafe relationship. Maybe you're questioning everything you believed. Maybe you're grieving infertility or your identity as a new mother.
And you think you have to figure it out alone.
Unsafe relationships
Leaving can feel disorienting, lonely, and impossible to explain.
Faith unraveling
When what once held you starts to crack, you need witnesses who won't minimize the cost.
Infertility and identity grief
Transition can happen in your body, your beliefs, your family, and your sense of self all at once.
The truest answer
You don't.
What you get
4 Weekly Live Classes + 24/7 Community
This is not a preset program you force yourself through. You attend the classes that match your stage, with space to be seen, coached, and held.
Wilderness & Contraction
Wednesday 5pm EST / Thursday 9am AEDT
For women in crisis, procedures, and acute grief.
Turning & Birth
Thursday 5pm EST / Friday 9am AEDT
For women emerging and rebuilding identity.
Fourth Trimester & Integration
Friday 8am EST / Saturday 12pm AEDT
For women grounding and mentoring others.
Best for women waking up, naming the truth, and choosing what comes next.
- Attend based on your stage, not a preset schedule
- 90 minutes per class: 55 min teaching + 35 min coaching
- Small groups of 5-7 women, so you're actually seen
- 24/7 private community
- Lifetime class recordings
- Your Transition Map member dashboard
- Optional peer mentorship pairs
Who is this for?
Are You Navigating...
If any of these feel familiar, The Sanctuary was built with your season in mind.
If even one of these makes your chest tighten, The Sanctuary is for you.
Trauma-aware care
M
Presence over platitudes
The Sanctuary is designed to feel calm, honest, and deeply personal, because the women inside it are carrying real stories.
Miriam
You'll Be Held by Someone Who Understands
Miriam Agnew is a registered midwife, abuse survivor, IVF warrior, and faith deconstructor. She's lived the transitions she teaches.
She's not offering platitudes. She's offering presence.
Registered midwife
Abuse survivor
IVF warrior
Faith deconstructor
She has walked through rupture, rebuilding, and rebirth herself, which
is why women feel safe enough to tell the truth here.
Choose Your Path
Every tier meets a different season of healing.
Some women need a soft first step. Some want a self-paced toolkit. Some are ready for live connection, and some want the full held container. Start where you are now.
Start with the three gentlest entry points.
Click any card to compare the best first-step options before moving into the longer Sanctuary containers.
Sacred Transition Starter
$27-$47
5-day email series introducing the 5 stages
Best for
First-time visitors curious about their stage.
Time and access
5 minutes a day for 5 days. Anytime access.
Start here if you want to understand where you are in your transition.
The Prodigal Woman's Transition Toolkit
$97
5 self-paced modules with worksheets and audio
Best for
Women who want to learn alone and move at their own pace.
Time and access
4-6 hours total. Lifetime access.
Perfect if you want to understand the stages before joining a group.
Choose Tier 1AFrom Exile to Homecoming
$397
4 live group calls plus private community over 8-10 weeks
Best for
Women ready for live teaching and group connection.
Time and access
90 minutes a week for 8-10 weeks. Monthly cohorts.
A strong stepping stone before joining The Sanctuary.
Choose Tier 1B
Tier 0 is the gentlest entry point: a low-cost 5-day email series to help a first-time visitor understand her transition stage.
Need the long-term containers?
These are the two deepest ways to work inside The Sanctuary if you are ready for an ongoing held environment.
The Sanctuary
$5,500
6 months · $916/month equivalent
- 4 weekly 90-minute classes, attend based on your stage
- Private community with 24/7 access
- Lifetime class recordings
- Optional peer mentorship pairs
- Your Transition Map member dashboard
Sanctuary + 1:1 Mentorship
$10,000
6 months · $1,667/month equivalent
- Everything in Tier 2 with all 4 weekly classes plus community
- Twelve 60-90 minute 1:1 sessions with Miriam every 2 weeks
- Personalized guidance and decision support
- Direct access to Miriam with healthy boundaries
- Custom homework and resources
Tier 2 is ideal if you want the structure, belonging, and rhythm of group healing.
What changes in 6 months
Your Transformation
Month 1
Arriving + Orienting
You find your stage. You realize you're not alone.
Months 2-3
Deepening + Processing
You connect with women who get it. You process what happened.
Month 4
Turning Points
Breakthroughs happen. You make decisions from wisdom, not fear.
Month 5
Integration + Rebuilding
You're grounded in your new identity. You're mentoring others.
Month 6
Celebrating + Looking Forward
You see how far you've come. You welcome yourself home.
Testimonials
Women leave feeling witnessed, steadier, and more themselves.
"I thought I was the only one who felt this way. The Sanctuary showed me I wasn't. And Miriam... she knew exactly what I needed to hear."
"This wasn't a course. It was a healing journey with witnesses. I left as a completely different woman."
"The community saved my life."
FAQs
Quick answers for the questions women usually ask first.
No. It's coaching + community. We recommend therapy + The Sanctuary together.
No. Attend the ones that match your stage, usually 1-2 per week.
You get lifetime access to all recordings. Watch anytime.
Yes, anytime during your membership.
Try Tier 0 (5-day email series), Tier 1A (self-paced toolkit), or Tier 1B (live cohort) first.
What you may be thinking
Real hesitations deserve honest answers.
Tap to reveal the answer
You're ready. The fact that you're here means something inside you knows
it's time.
Tap to reveal the answer
Healing isn't linear. We don't promise a quick fix. We promise you won't
be alone.
Tap to reveal the answer
That's real. Start with Tier 0 ($27-$47), Tier 1A ($97), or Tier 1B ($397). You can always upgrade later.
This page honors urgency without pressure. Women can enter where they are,
and go deeper when they're ready.
Final invitation
You're Not Alone Anymore
Six months from now, you'll be someone new. Your life will be different. Your choices will be yours. You'll know what it feels like to belong, especially to yourself. The Sanctuary is waiting.
Not ready for the full 6-month container yet?
Need help choosing? Compare all tiers above.
Live classes
Private community
Small groups
Lifetime recordings
Choose the level of support that meets you where you are now. You can start gently and deepen when you're ready.
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